Communication accomodations

We all speak the same language when it comes to a smile.

I believe we all make accommodations to our communication depending on the circumstances. In an effort to be accepted I tend to bend my communication skills to draw in or make the person feel comfortable. Naturally, it is because I am uncomfortable and have a deep desire to connect.

I have been able to change registers to make someone feel more accepted. I have spoken a different language to be able to connect and communicate with new families in my center. I have been able to appease atheists or Jewish families when they express concern regarding the religious influence of my program. It happens to be Christian. 

I employ these communication practices to build trust and lay a foundation of respect. It is a different form of communication that I would use with my family. This would be informal and very expressive. 

The three ways to foster communication within these different groups are respecting their culture and their points of reference. When you take time to learn something about their culture or family is communicates your deeper desire to know who they are.  Asking questions is also a way to show your concern and care for understanding who they are as group, such as families of Jewish faith. Lastly, listening to them will allow you to learn more about them.